Consideration and Kindness

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By Bernadette A. Sahm

Simple considerations and kindness are always appreciated, and they never go out of style. Recently while attending an Orioles baseball game in Baltimore, Maryland we experienced unexpectedly kindness that wasn’t lost on us. We decided to take the train to the game and as soon as we entered it was clear that it was packed with standing room only. Not long after we took off a middle-aged man offered me his seat. He was seated next to his wife. I declined his offer but gave him two thumbs up and told him, “Thank you! What a gentleman!” They both smiled at me.

Soon after as we were sitting in our stadium seats the three ladies in front of us took a selfie and we ended up in their photos. The woman with the camera turned to me and asked if we minded if she put the photo on her social media. How considerate I thought and replied with “no problem, as far as I know we aren’t in the witness protection program” we all laughed. Her consideration wasn’t lost on me.

In a city like Baltimore, sadly often known for violence it’s nice to witness that “Charm City” hasn’t lost its charm. The next morning as we were about to leave town we went for coffee. As I was leaving the coffee shop a young man held the door open for me. He held it for as long as it took for me to completely exit, again I was thankful for his kindness and consideration.

So … what can you do today to make someone’s day that is rooted in consideration and kindness?

Peace and blessings, Bernadette

Bernadette on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/bernadetteamoyer

#consideration #kindness #Baltimore

64 Things I Am Grateful For …

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by Bernadette A. Sahm

For my 64 years and in random order things I am thankful for …

  1. My life with the good, the bad, the happy and the sad
  2. My husband Brian and his unconditional love for me
  3. Soft baked pretzels
  4. Motherhood and all the lessons it taught me
  5. My careers
  6. My friends
  7. My jobs
  8. My many travels
  9. My writings
  10. My parents Bernie and Inez who gave me my life
  11. Our home in Lutherville selling for full price
  12. Our beach house
  13. Good health
  14. My faith In God
  15. My energy
  16. My spirit
  17. Love in all its many forms
  18. Living less than 4 miles from the ocean
  19. My gay neighbors
  20. My non gay neighbors
  21. Our precious bichon Bailey
  22. Our precious bichon Buddy
  23. Fully stocked refrigerator
  24. Steaks in the freezer
  25. Fresh berries
  26. Sight
  27. Music and sounds
  28. Sunshine
  29. Rain
  30. Warm summer days
  31. Cool summer nights
  32. Barbecue
  33. Top down driving
  34. Baltimore Orioles games
  35. Road trips
  36. Long hot showers
  37. Fully stocked bar
  38. Mile high bubble baths
  39. Long walks
  40. Bike riding on my pink beach cruiser
  41. New friends
  42. Old friends
  43. Peace inside of me
  44. Long days
  45. Short days
  46. Farmers markets
  47. Ear buds rocking my favorite tunes
  48. Rocking chairs
  49. Lazy Boy recliner chairs
  50. Crisp white cotton sheets
  51. My many journals
  52. All of my hard cover and soft cover books
  53. My new peach colored maxi dress
  54. Our anniversary plans out of town
  55. Sweet Frog frozen yogurt
  56. Long wooden bars with fun bartenders
  57. Thoughtful people who make you feel special
  58. Young people starting out and making their own way in life
  59. Plans for the future
  60. Living in the moment
  61. Appreciating all that we achieved
  62. Homemade Italian food
  63. Warm fresh baked cookies
  64. Chances, choices, changes and all the days of my life

#thankful #grateful #blessed #listofgratitude

Bernadette on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/bernadetteamoyer