When I Grew Up

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By Bernadette A. Sahm

Life seemed so simple when I grew up, there was a code of conduct and rules that we lived by, they were just common sense. Here are the ones I remember that had a lasting impact on me.

  1. Remember your P’s and Q’s (please and thank you)
  2. We are NOT heating/cooling the outside world (reference to leaving doors open)
  3. Stop crying or I will give you something to cry about
  4. Idle time is a devil’s workshop
  5. Clean your plate! There are starving people in the world.
  6. What did YOU do? In reference to any time, you complained about other kids or what others did
  7. Just because everyone else does, does that mean you have to do the same? If they jumped off a bridge, would you?
  8. Because I said so!
  9. If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.
  10. Doesn’t leave much to the imagination! (In reference to skimpy revealing clothes)
  11. Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

I grew up in a time and in a home where these were the lessons and the house rules. Most of these were from my parents and grandparents. They definitely formed me into the adult I am today.

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The Buzzsaw

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By Bernadette A. Sahm

You can’t speak the truth

Because they chop your head off

Keep lying stop trying

Stand for something fall for anything

They gather together

Spy on you

Keep the lie going

Keep the lies growing

That’s what they do

They are a buzzsaw

All against you

You leave and walk away

Over it and over them

Sad but true

They knew and so did you

It’s a circular cut

The blade so abrasive

She called it “love”

I had to laugh

This from the person who knew the truth

But chooses to live a lie

She called the table “purple”

Everyone could see it was white

They looked at her

They looked at eachother

Then agreed it was “purple”

You stood there loudly proclaimed

“It’s white and you are all liars”

Birds of a feather

They do flock together

Love no, not at all

Mentally not well

I will take the white table

And the truth please

No thanks on the buzzsaw

I couldn’t care less

I’m happy now living truth and love

You are sadly purple and as stuck as ever

You can’t cut me anymore

1000 cuts I survived

Stronger, smarter and healthier

Not playing your same old tired games

I look back and shake my head

And I laugh and I laugh

I thank God that I’m good

Loved beyond measure

Peaceful tranquil and content

Over it and over you

I had to leave

I couldn’t take all the lies

I tried but I knew it was wrong

And we all knew it too

Keep your buzzsaw

I am planting a garden and

Collecting sand in my shoes …

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How Did We Get Here So Fast

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by Bernadette A. Sahm

Working and grinding

Paying all the bills, cheap thrills

Raising kids and puppy loves

Never ending

Seems to be enough

Then one day you stop

Think and ponder

What comes next

Where do I want to be

What do I wish to see

How much time do we have

The days numbered between birth to death

Moving pieces and moving ahead

Moving on … nothings lasts

How on earth did we get here so fast

When it truly was so very long

Kids are grown and long gone

House sells

Bye bye, career jobs

Moving out and moving on

Retired life beach bound

How did we get here so fast

But then again, it really was so very long …

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